Anne Sexton

Anne Sexton was a mid-twentieth century American poet. Along with Sylvia Plath, she is considered to have pioneered the genre of confessional poetry. Sexton was a prolific but troubled poet who lost her life to suicide in her mid-forties.

Content warning: contains themes of suicide.

Anne Sexton: a biography

Anne Sexton was born on 9th November 1928 in Massachusetts. She was born Anne Gray Harvey. Sexton's father was a businessman, and she had a relatively comfortable childhood. Despite this, Sexton later described her relationship with her parents as somewhat abusive.¹ She attended boarding school and later a finishing school but did not move on to university.

At the age of nineteen, Sexton eloped with Alfred Muller Sexton. Alfred would go on to work for Sexton's father. Between 1953 and 1955, Sexton gave birth to her two daughters. She then began to suffer from severe post-partum depression.

Sexton began to attend a therapist. She spent time in a mental institution, and her children were taken away from her for a period. Sexton dealt with severe mental health issues for the rest of her life. According to today's psychology, she likely had bipolar disorder.

While she was in her late twenties, Sexton's therapist advised that she start writing poetry to help her deal with her mental health issues. Sexton had little background in writing, so she attended classes and workshops to strengthen her skills. Here she met famous and successful poets who were very influential in her work. These included George Starbuck and Sylvia Plath.

Many that Sexton met in literary circles recognised her talent and encouraged her to continue writing. She quickly grew to love poetry. Sexton published her first collection, To Bedlam and Part Way Back, in 1960 with the publisher Houghton Mifflin. This work detailed her mental health struggles and time spent in mental hospitals. The collection was very critically successful and launched Sexton to popularity.

In 1961, Sexton was appointed a scholar at the Radcliffe Institute, Harvard University. This was a significant moment for Sexton as Radcliffe scholars typically had extensive university backgrounds, something she lacked. She was exposed to many feminist critics and theorists, significantly impacting how she wrote. Sexton published her next collection, All My Pretty Ones, in 1962. This was another hugely successful work. However, Sexton was still suffering from mental health issues. Her parents had died within a few months of each other in 1960, hugely affecting her mental state.

Sexton's next collection, Live or Die (1966), won the prestigious Pulitzer Prize. This solidified Sexton's popularity. Her next two collections, Love Poems (1969) and Transformations (1971), were her two bestselling works. Love Poems was noted for its open and honest discussions of sexuality, particularly female sexuality and the female body.

By the early 1970s, Sexton's mental state had begun to decline rapidly. She had divorced her husband and neither of her daughters were living at home anymore. She had also become dependent on alcohol and pills. Sexton's last published poetry collection was The Death Notebooks (1974). The title of this collection was purposeful as Sexton believed she did not have much time left. She committed suicide on 4th October 1974 at the age of forty-five. It appears that Sexton planned her suicide.

Today, Sexton is regarded as an important and influential poet of the confessional poem genre. She wrote openly and honestly on mental health topics and female bodies at a time when these issues were still very controversial.²

Anne Sexton: poems

We will now examine some of Sexton's most important poems.

Anne Sexton: 'For My Lover, Returning To His Wife' (1968)

This poem is from Sexton's collection Love Poems. It is a monologue-style poem told from the perspective of a mistress addressing her lover. The mistress is lamenting the fact that her lover is leaving her after their affair and returning to his wife. However, the tone of this poem is quite resigned and accepting of this reality. Sexton's narrator spends the majority of 'For My Lover, Returning To His Wife' focused on the relationship between her lover and his wife. She paints a vivid picture of what this woman is like and how perfect a mother and wife she is.

Sexton's poem fits into the genre of confessional poetry with its use of the first person and its focus on the intimate but taboo issue of adultery. The poem has no set metre or rhyme scheme but Sexton does use the poetic device of anaphora in this work.

Many of the lines in 'For My Lover, Returning To His Wife' begin with the pronoun 'she'. This is referring to the wife of the narrator's lover. This emphasises the focus the poem has on this woman. The narrator obsesses over and compares herself to her lover's wife. The poetic device of anaphora aids Sexton in exploring the themes of infidelity and love in her poem. The narrator does not address the controversial nature of infidelity. She instead focuses on the deep connection her lover has to his wife.

'For My Lover, Returning To His Wife' shows the pain that infidelity can cause. It is also important to note that Sexton shows the man in this love triangle as unaffected by what has occurred.

Anne Sexton: 'Her Kind' (1960)

'Her Kind' was a significant poem for Anne Sexton. It appeared in her first collection To Bedlam and Part Way Back. Sexton would always open any of her poetry readings with 'Her Kind'.

The poem is divided into three stanzas of seven lines each. Each stanza showcases the poem's narrator taking on various kinds of witch personas, as seen below in the opening lines of 'Her Kind'.

The narrator uses vivid imagery of herself haunting places and living in the woods. She also suggests that there is a group of witch-like women acting in this manner. They live their own lives and are frowned upon by society. This was quite an unusual subject matter at Sexton's time of writing in the early 1960s.

'Her Kind' depicts women living outside the bounds of patriarchal society. Sexton's world would have expected women to prioritise being ideal wives and mothers. 'Her Kind' shows women leading adventurous, dangerous, and, importantly, independent lives. Sexton is showing how ostracised women can become from society when they do not obey its rules.

The title and repetition of the phrase 'her kind' also suggests solidarity between these outcasted women. This would have been quite a radical suggestion in America in 1960.

Anne Sexton: analysis

Now let's look at some of the most important themes in Sexton's poetry.

Anne Sexton: feminism

After time spent in literary circles and at the Radcliffe Institute, Sexton began to incorporate feminist ideas into her work. This was likely also due to her own experiences as a woman in the patriarchy of 1960s America.

Sexton wrote openly and honestly about many of the issues women were facing in her society. These ranged from mental illness to abortion to menstruation. Topics such as these were very rarely discussed in mainstream society at this time. It was thought quite shameful to be open about such things.

'Her Kind' addresses the struggles of women that do not obey social norms. Sexton encourages solidarity among these women, going directly against society. Another of Sexton's poems, 'The Ballad of the Lonely Masturbator' (1969), was equally controversial. Its open discussion of female sexuality, particularly without the necessity of a male figure present, was extremely taboo.

'The Abortion' (1962) is one of Anne Sexton's most challenging poems. It details the journey of a regretful woman getting an illegal abortion. Abortion was not openly discussed in Sexton's society. It was illegal in America until 1973. 'The Abortion' is likely based on a real experience of Sexton's. She became pregnant in 1960, after her two daughters had been born. Sexton did not believe she was physically or mentally healthy enough to have another child. However, her husband wished for her to give birth. Although she was personally against abortion, Sexton elected to have an illegal one for her own wellbeing.

Sexton's honest discussions of female issues were quite shocking to many when she was writing and publishing in the 1960s and 1970s. However, her popularity showcases how much many of these issues resonated with her readers.

Anne Sexton: mental illness

Anne Sexton's lifelong struggle with mental illness led her to write about it in her poetry frequently. Her first collection, To Bedlam and Part Way Back, is based mainly on her mental health journey. As is common in Sexton's work, this was also something taboo to be writing about in mid-twentieth century America. The study of psychology was not yet advanced. Many mental illnesses were not taken seriously or treated properly. Women suffered as many conditions were put down to the female stereotype of hysteria.

'Wanting to Die' (1964) is an intensely personal poem that discusses the narrator's 'lustful' attraction to the idea of committing suicide. Sexton uses the language of a romantic relationship to describe a relationship between a person and the extreme idea of ending their own life. This dark work explores the impact of severe mental health issues.

'Noon Walk on the Asylum Lawn' (1960) is a poem with a suspicious and tense tone. As seen from the title, it is told from the perspective of an asylum patient taking a walk. The narrator is out in nature which is often seen as a peaceful place in poetry. Sexton subverts this. Her narrator sees risk and danger everywhere, even in the blades of grass around her. She is showing the paranoia and fear that mental illness can cause. Below is the poem's ominous and concluding line that encapsulates the narrator's feelings.

Anne Sexton: life

Since her death, there has been much critical debate over how much of Sexton's life influenced her poetry. Some have argued that readers of Sexton's work have tried too hard to prescribe her personal life directly onto her poetry. They have made the point that Sexton's poetry is technically told by narrators who are not her.

Others have argued that this is the nature of confessional poetry. This mode of poetry is characterised by its intimacy and the fact that it is often based on the poet's own life. Sexton was a pioneer of the genre. Many common themes in Sexton's poetry line up with events that occurred in her life. These include struggles with mental illness, abortion, and the difficulty of being a woman in 1960s America. Sexton was even initially encouraged to write poetry to battle her mental health issues.

It is important not to take everything a poet or author writes as autobiographical. However, part of the reason Anne Sexton was so popular was likely because of how honest she was in her poetry.

Anne Sexton: quotes